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Personal Update: Bad News
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03-04-2013, 09:19 PM
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RE: Personal Update: Bad News
This is one of those sorry to hear this/good for you moments... You always have to make sure you are happy first... If your needs are not being met, physically/mentally/emotionally/spiritually, your partners won't either. My wife and I have known each other for over 20 years (childhood friends), she is borderline disabled due to back issues and is recovering from a surgery currently. The load and burden are on me atm and it gets rough. But she realizes this and makes an effort to make sure I'm still happy, a kiss, a note, random text.. Little things.. It is funny how a simple little piece of paper can change a persons outlook on a relationship though... Things have changed back since you guys came to terms with what was going on because the weight was lifted, and the chance for loss of your partner became a realization... Complacency in a situation is a bitch sometimes. And in all truth people do change.. Future outlooks change.. I'm rambling again, whenever I hook into your posts I do this.
 bottom line, if it feels like the right thing for you, then it is. Don't get down, it is nobody's fault, it happens. My father has been married 6 times, and he finally got it right. Sometimes it just takes time. Your a good guy and you self realization IS going to take you a long way.. Keep your chin up, you'll do great.
I'm not dead. I'm electroencephalographically challenged... |
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