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Personal Update: Bad News
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05-04-2013, 07:23 AM
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RE: Personal Update: Bad News
Well, i am sorry to hear bout your divorce, and trust me, i know what im talking about here. Im in the process myself at the momemt. Technically, were still trying to work it out, but i know the writings on the wall, and wiht the missus being who she is, i can sum it up in some lyrics from Evita: "Seems to me theres no point in resistance. Shes made up her mind, You´ve no choice".
Me, of course im sad. Its 12 years of Marriage, and shes flushing it down the toilet. It complicates things that we have a child, and i cant live without that child. So for the time being, were still living together, but only as friends. Friends......funny word there. How do you revewrt to friends, after 12 years. I dont think it can happen, neither am i sure i´d like a friend, that can loose all her interest in me, in the span of 4 months, all the wile blaming me for not changing, when she didnt talk to me about her being unhappy. I may be dense, but i didnt see it coming, and i feel trainwrecked. I still love her, but her attitude towards this is slowly strangeling that love, to the point of suffocation. Oh well, Maybe ill rise from this experience a stronger man, but right now, not much to laugh at. Still, if the loves gone, theres no amount of begging or changing yourself that will help. Am glad for you, that you feel youre getting stronger, and happier. I long to reach that realization myself. Best of luck Mate :-) |
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