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PJON · 05-10-2013, 05:10 PM

Hi Ok, i know. i will shut up.

But it was weird yesterday. After i wrote on here about compromises. I got into another coversation with another guy about compromises. Compromises dont work, my first marriage was based on compromises. Hence the "first"

For a happy note about compromises.

In My Humble Opinion, no disrespect to those who enjoy....
I do not like professional sports. I think its a waste of time, unless your playing in the game. I dont like baseball, American football, soccer, tennis, boxing or golf, etc... There all the same to me. Ok, I will watch mixed martial arts or hockey. Im not a fan of either and could not tell you anything about them....but its kinda fun to watch the fights.

I have a friend of mine who like the Baltimore Orioles baseball. If he asks me to a game, which he does. I will go, with no hesitation, regret, or compromise. I dont complain either. I dont like baseball, but i do like him. Going with him is actually fun, because i enjoy his company, where ever we are. I can have a good time anywhere, and anytime.

Going with him, to a ball game or anywhere is fun. Because i enjoy his company. Will he play board games with me, some. Will he play Darkon with me, No. Will he go do freaky fun things with me, No. Yet he lets me be me, and enjoys my company as well.

If you think about making a compromise, STOP. Think about what you really want. Is it going to a ball game so he will go do _____ with me. Nope. Its about enjoying the person your with, and their enjoyment. Dont compromise, find what makes you happy and enjoy that. I dont like baseball, but i like him. For me, thats enough.

Maybe when he figures that out, he will finally dump his girlfreind LOL